Finding a girlfriend online is a lot easier than finding one in public areas. It is easier to communicate with a girl online than talk to her face to face. The only thing you need to do is ‘know the right way’.
Many guys try online dating but they fail because either they don’t try hard enough or they try hard but do it in the wrong way. The idea is to send more and more messages as it increases your chance of getting a reply.
Guys who are afraid of rejection or have already faced rejections find it hard to give it another shot. But instead of putting a full stop to your messaging, know why the girls are not replying to you. There may be guys flirting with not one but a number of girls. What are they doing that you are missing?
First of all understand that there are three main reasons why girls don’t reply. Firstly, there are many fake profiles on online dating sites and obviously fake profiles do not respond. Secondly, some girls make their profile to see how many guys approach them. Their motive is not dating but ego boosting. Thirdly, most guys use same pick up lines or common sentences to approach girls, like ‘Hi how are you?’ To seek her attention you need to work on the message you send to her. It should be creative and make her look at your profile and respond back.
To find a girlfriend online, you must follow some simple guidelines:
Set a goal: It is important to know your real motive. If it is making a girlfriend, then stick to it and do whatever you can to achieve your goal. If it is just time pass, then do not take rejections seriously and move on.
Create a decent but unique profile: Whichever dating site you select, make sure you create a decent and unique profile. Your description about yourself should make girls consider you as a different guy. If you look at profile of most men, you will find the same boring stuff. So create a profile that makes you look genuine and worth approaching.
Remember, creating profile on different websites is a good thing but if your profile is available on every other site, you will look desperate and cheap. So go for good websites that have some value.
Put pictures: First of all your profile picture should be the one that catches attention. It should be decent and clear. Next your photo album must have casual but clear pictures. They must impress a girl and not make her close the profile page immediately.
Send creative e-mails: Be creative when it comes to sending emails and messages. Do not write the same sentences that every other guy writes. Your message should prompt her to reply and not make her delete it immediately.
Do not be in a hurry to reply: Whenever a girl messages you or replies to your message, do not be in a hurry to reply. Wait for a day and then reply. This will show that you are a genuine guy and are not always online on dating sites. While chatting, try to show that you have got to do other work also. Come along as a serious person who has other works also apart from dating. This will make the girl more interested in you.
